A Good Spouse Makes You 90% More Likely To…

Summary

• Having a supportive spouse makes you 90% more likely to take on challenging tasks.
• The reason for this is that support makes hard things feel easier.
• If someone is always nagging or negative, it makes you feel bad, and people who feel bad achieve less.
• Feeling bad and failing often creates a cycle where negativity from a partner makes you fail more, reinforcing their negative views.
• Sometimes, you need to ask if your partner shares the same goals or vision for life as you.
• If your partner is overly insecure about your dreams, it might mean you don't share the same mission, and you need to reconsider being with them.

Video

How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing these steps to ensure you get the most out of your personal growth or business journey:

Assess Your Support System

A good way to start is by evaluating your current support system. Look at how your partner or closest friends respond to your ambitions. If they’re negative or nagging, understand that this can make challenges feel tougher and hinder your progress.

Communicate Your Goals

Talk to your partner or close friends about your goals and vision for your life or business. Make sure they understand what you're aiming for and why it’s important to you. This helps align your missions and reduces misunderstandings.

Encourage Positivity

Ask for positive support explicitly. Let your partner or friends know that their encouragement can make a huge difference in your confidence and success. This can turn a negative cycle into a positive one, where their support boosts your achievements.

Re-Evaluate Relationships

Sometimes, despite your best efforts, some people might not be able to support your dreams. Ask yourself if your partner or close friends truly share the same vision and goals. If they don’t, it might be time to reconsider those relationships.

Build a Positive Network

Surround yourself with people who believe in you. Join groups or communities that share your interests and goals. These people are likely to offer the support you need without the negativity that can hold you back.

Set Clear Boundaries

If you have to keep relationships with negative influences, set boundaries on what you’ll discuss with them. Keep conversations positive and avoid sharing vulnerable plans or ideas if they’re likely to respond negatively. Save those discussions for your supportive network.

By following these steps, you can create a more supportive environment, making it easier to tackle challenges and achieve your goals.

Full Transcript

people who have a supportive spouse a spouse who speaks positively to them a healthy relationship are 90% more likely to take on hard challenges why is that because it doesn't feel so hard when you have undying support from somebody but if you have somebody nagging you and telling you why you're wrong and why you're bad all the time you feel pretty shitty and people who feel shitty don't accomplish as much and so it ends up being this perpetuating cycle where you keep failing that enforces what they've been saying which is like I knew you were going to fail and you fail again and it's this whole cycle in this instance if you're with somebody who's just continuing to speak out and be insecure sometimes you have to take a step back and ask yourself does this person want what I want in life and this is the one instance in which if somebody is truly that scared and that insecure of your dreams and what that means to them then it might mean that you guys don't have the same mission in life you don't have the same vision and you need to reconsider who you are with