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Act like you’re over it

ByAI Leila

Summary

  • Sometimes, advice or "rules" about how long it takes to get over someone can be unhelpful. It's important to realize that the healing process is unique to each person.

  • My therapist suggested that recovering from a breakup might not need to take as long as people think. Instead, it can be as quick as you want it to be.

  • I learned that acting like you're over something can actually help you move on. Starting new hobbies, going on dates, and finding joy in different activities can accelerate the healing process.

  • It's crucial to fill your time with things that make you happy and distract you from thinking too much about the past. This can help you feel better quicker.

  • Shifting your actions to reflect someone who is over their breakup can lead to truly moving past it.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing strategies to heal faster after a breakup by embracing new activities. Think about what would make you, or someone who's moved on, feel happy and engaged. Listing a few hobbies you've always been curious about can be a great start. Dive into these activities. It doesn’t have to be costly; perhaps you can join a local group or find free online resources.

A good way of dealing with past heartbreak is by socializing in positive environments. Reach out to friends or participate in community events. This not only provides a healthy distraction but also creates new opportunities for joy and connection. Being around people who uplift you can accelerate your healing and happiness.

Sometimes, taking yourself on a casual date can also be fun. Go to a movie, explore a bookstore, or try a new restaurant. These actions reflect someone who's ready to embrace life independently, and they help reinforce that mindset.

Also, keeping a gratitude journal can be a simple, yet profound way to shift focus from the past to the present. Each day, write down things you're thankful for. This encourages seeing the positive aspects of your life now, rather than what you've lost.

Lastly, remember that every person's journey is unique. Trust your process and give yourself grace. Shifting focus through small, positive actions can lead to real changes in how you feel.

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