Are You Worthy?
Summary
- Affirmations alone can't validate your worth; your accomplishments do that.
- Telling yourself you're worthy won't make it true; having tangible results will.
- Give yourself permission to fail and be unhappy as a part of the growth process.
- Allow yourself to diverge from the expectations of your social circle to achieve greatness.
- Embrace being different and accept the loss of friendships if necessary for personal success.
- Being exceptional requires permitting yourself to be the exception.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest first looking at your own achievements instead of just saying affirmations. You need to see what you've done that shows you're great. To get better, don't be afraid to mess up or feel sad sometimes. It's all part of growing.
A good way to be different and do really well is to be okay with not fitting in. You might have to do things that your friends don't do or you might even lose some friends. But that's what it takes to be better than average.
Let's break it down into steps:
- Make a list of what you've actually done so far. This will show you why you're worthy, not just because you say it.
- Set a goal that looks tough. It's okay if you don't get it right the first time. Trying and failing is how you learn.
- Do something that scares you or that you're not sure about. This is how you get better.
- Look at who you spend time with. Are they helping you be your best? If not, it's okay to spend time with people who push you to grow.
- Accept that you're different and that's good. You'll stand out because you're not afraid to be the exception.
Remember, you become strong by doing hard things, not just by thinking about them.
Quotes by Alex Hormozi
"The way that you know you're worthy is that you have it"
– Alex Hormozi
"It's just giving yourself permission to suck"
– Alex Hormozi
"It's giving yourself permission to be unhappy"
– Alex Hormozi
"It's giving yourself permission to lose friends"
– Alex Hormozi
"Giving yourself permission to be an exception so that you can become exceptional"
– Alex Hormozi
Full Transcript
I saw a post a girl made and she was like you are worthy you are amazing you are a goddess and I was like you're not a goddess cuz you don't control me and you don't have the things that you want you keep thinking that you saying that you're worthy is going to somehow make it true the way that you know you're worthy is that you have it it's just giving yourself permission to suck it's giving yourself permission to be unhappy it's giving yourself permission to not achieve all you do for a long period of time it's giving yourself permission to lose friends it's giving yourself permission to do things that's different than people in your Social Circle or your age group or doing giving yourself permission to be an exception so that you can become exceptional