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Summary

• Business is never fair, and not everyone plays by the rules.
• The true loss comes when others' unfair actions change your behavior and values.
• If you let unfairness change how you act, you're hurt twice: once in the unfair situation and again when you hesitate in future situations.
• Don't let negative past experiences stop you from making new opportunities.
• Accept that some people will cheat or be unfair in business.

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How To Take Action

Actionable Business and Personal Growth Strategies

Here are some easy steps you can take to apply these lessons and strategies in your business and personal life:

1. Accept Unfairness:

• Acknowledge Reality: Realize that not everyone in business will play fair. Write this down as a reminder and review it when you feel frustrated by unfair situations.
• Expected Behaviors: Understand that some people might cheat or be unfair, and prepare yourself mentally to handle it. This can help you stay calm and focused.

2. Maintain Your Values:

• Stick to Your Morals: Write down your core values and keep them visible in your workspace. Refer to them when making decisions to ensure you don't compromise your integrity.
• Behavior Consistency: Act consistently with your values, even when faced with unfairness. Remind yourself that changing your behavior due to others' actions means they win twice.

3. Learn from Each Experience:

• Reflect, Don't React: When you encounter an unfair situation, take a moment to reflect on what you can learn rather than immediately reacting. This helps you avoid hasty and value-compromising decisions.
• Journal Lessons: Keep a journal of these experiences and the lessons learned. This helps you grow and adapt without losing your core values.

4. Don't Let the Past Hold You Back:

• Focus on the Future: Remind yourself that past negative experiences are just lessons, not barriers. Look for new opportunities with a fresh perspective.
• Set Clear Boundaries: Learn to set healthy boundaries in business deals or relationships that protect you without making you overly suspicious.

5. Preparedness and Resilience:

• Mental Preparedness: Practice resilience exercises such as mindfulness or deep-breathing techniques. This helps you stay level-headed in unfair situations.
• Support Network: Build a network of trusted advisors or friends you can turn to for guidance and support when dealing with unfairness.

By integrating these low-cost, high-value strategies into your daily routine, you can handle unfair situations effectively without compromising your values, helping you continue to thrive in business and personal growth.

Full Transcript

nothing is ever going to be fair business is not people will not play fair but they win when them not playing Fair changes my behavior and so the key is that if you allow others unfairness to change your behavior to change your values and how you act you lose because you get burned twice you get burned in the situation and then you get burned again when you say no to the next situation to the next person to hiring the next employee you look at these situations and say well they must be the same so I should protect myself from these new ones but the reality is that you can't do that people are going to you in business and the reality is