Follow the Plan
Summary
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I grew up with people telling me to pay attention to my feelings and mood. However, I've learned that sometimes my gut can lead me astray, such as dating the wrong person or taking dead-end jobs.
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It's important to recognize when following your feelings may not be the best choice. Sometimes the discomfort you experience today is necessary to achieve your dreams tomorrow.
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I found that staying with people or situations that don't contribute positively can hinder my growth. It's essential to make decisions that align with your future goals, even if they're uncomfortable right now.
- The key lesson is recognizing the cost of your dreams involves pushing through present discomforts.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing the strategy of not always following your gut feelings, especially in important decisions like choosing a job or relationship. Instead, take a step back and assess whether your feelings align with your long-term goals. Consider writing down your goals and revisiting them when you're unsure.
A good way of doing this is to practice identifying when your emotions might be clouding your judgment. When faced with a decision, pause and think, "Is this choice based on temporary feelings, or does it really help my future?" Try making a pros and cons list to see things clearly.
Sometimes, we need to stay in uncomfortable situations to achieve our dreams. Whether it's a tough project at work or cutting ties with negative influences, remind yourself that this discomfort is temporary and necessary for growth. You can create a vision board with your goals to keep you motivated during these challenging times.
Lastly, reflect on your relationships and environments. If they aren't helping you grow, it might be time to make changes. Surround yourself with people who uplift and push you toward your goals. It might be tough, but it'll be worth it in the long run.
