Forget The Facade
Summary
- As a child, I often felt wildly insecure and like I didn't fit in.
- I didn't get yelled at much, but I struggled with feeling not good enough.
- Even today, I may just be a nerd in makeup, but embracing that makes me feel more interesting and fun.
- I suppressed my true self while trying to fit into business norms, but I learned people might dislike me anyway, so it's better to just be myself.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest embracing your true self to feel more confident in both life and business. It's important to accept who you are, even if you feel insecure or like you don't fit in. Remember, authenticity can make you more interesting and relatable. Start small by letting parts of your personality shine through in interactions, whether it's with customers, colleagues, or friends. This can help build genuine connections and make work more enjoyable.
A good way to nurture this authenticity is by identifying what makes you unique and incorporating it into your daily routine or business practices. Maybe it's a hobby you love or a quirky habit. Let it be part of your identity, both personally and professionally. This builds a consistent and genuine presence that others can appreciate.
Consider allocating a dedicated time each week for self-reflection. Even just 15 minutes can be valuable in understanding your actions and thoughts. Reflecting helps you stay true to your values and discover areas for growth.
Finally, practice self-compassion. Avoid harsh self-criticism when things don’t go as planned. Instead, recognize your efforts and remind yourself that everyone has insecurities. Gradually, this mindset encourages personal growth and reduces the need to conform to others' expectations. By being true to yourself, you'll find the people who appreciate you for who you are, helping you thrive both personally and professionally.
