Get Your Shit Together…

Summary

• To be successful, start by organizing your personal life. Learn to manage and take care of yourself effectively.
• Cut out any relationships that make you respect yourself less. This includes friends or family members who don't treat you well.
• Think of your attention like a jar of marbles. Focus your marbles on one thing that will advance your goals.
• Avoid spending attention on negative thoughts about yourself or bad relationships, as it detracts from building your business.
• For example, I lost 85 pounds and managed my relationship with anxiety. Doing so prepared me to seize opportunities for success when they appeared.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest starting by getting your personal life organized. Focus on self-care and learn to manage your daily routines better. This could mean setting a regular sleep schedule, planning meals, or even just setting aside time for exercise each day. These simple actions help you feel more in control and ready to tackle challenges.

Another thing is to look closely at your relationships. Are there friends or family members who don't treat you well or make you respect yourself less? It's important to distance yourself from those connections. Surround yourself with people who uplift and support you. This way, your energy is spent on relationships that matter, helping you focus on your business goals.

Think of your attention like a jar with a limited number of marbles. Each day, decide where you want to place your marbles. Focus on one or two key goals that will move your progress forward, be it in personal growth or business. Avoid wasting marbles on negative self-talk or toxic relationships. This allows you to channel your energy and time into activities that bring real value to your journey.

Lastly, recognize and manage your personal challenges. Whether it's losing weight, like I did, or dealing with anxiety, facing these challenges head-on strengthens your ability to take advantage of opportunities. By focusing on self-improvement, you're preparing yourself to seize success when it comes your way.

Full Transcript

in the beginning to be successful I think that what's required often is that you get your personal life together you've got to learn to manage yourself you've got to learn to take care of yourself you've got to learn to like cut out relationships that make you respect yourself less um the reason for that is because if you think of your attention I think of my attention like a jar of marbles and when I have that jar of marbles I want to make sure that all of my marbles are going onto the one thing that's going to move the needle forward for me and that thing if it's friends who are to me family members who don't treat me well me feeling overweight and bad about myself then that's all attention that could have gone to building my business that is now going to me like to something that's a negative it's bringing my life down and so for me like I think losing the 85 lbs I lost working through like managing my relationship with anxiety all these other things I think that those enabled me to capitalize on success when it was in front of me