How I Deal with Online Hate
Summary
- When I first started making content, I got many terrible comments about my voice being very low for a woman. It was tough to deal with.
- People made assumptions and even made videos asking if I was a guy or a girl. It felt awful and dehumanizing.
- I used to wake up, see these comments, and start crying. It was really hard before receiving any positive feedback.
- After about a year, I asked myself if I would let this stop me. I realized I'm making content for the person I was when I started my last company.
- I decided not to let it stop me, and since I wasn't changing my circumstances, I needed to change my perspective.
- Now, I understand that if I continue trying hard, there will be people who understand my intentions.
- I am no longer afraid of what people can say about me. I am truly fearless now.
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How To Take Action
Changing Perspective
I would suggest implementing a change in perspective. Instead of focusing on external validation, remind yourself why you started your business or personal growth journey. Think about the person you were when you began and create content or pursue goals for that version of yourself. This will keep you motivated regardless of any negative feedback.
Embracing Criticism
A good way of dealing with negative comments is to use them as a learning tool rather than a setback. Write down the constructive points, if any, and see how you can improve. For the outright negative and dehumanizing comments, acknowledge that they hurt but don't let them stop you. Over time, like I did, you will become more resilient.
Building Confidence
One thing that might help build your confidence is to focus on small wins and positive feedback. Create a folder where you save all the good comments and testimonials. Whenever you feel discouraged, look through this folder to remind yourself of the positive impact you’re making.
Consistent Effort
Commit to consistency. Just like I did for a year, keep pushing forward with your efforts, whether it's content creation or personal development. Consistency will help you improve over time and reach the right audience who appreciates your work.
Community Support
Find or build a community of like-minded individuals. Join forums, online groups, or local meet-ups where you can share experiences and gather support. This network will help you feel less isolated and more understood.
Self-Care
Finally, practice self-care. Emotional resilience takes a toll on your mental health. Make time for activities that recharge you, whether it's exercise, reading, or spending time with loved ones. This will keep you balanced and ready to face any challenges.
Full Transcript
are you a guy or a girl when I first started making content I got terrible comments because my voice is very low as a woman all sorts of assumptions made for that I would wake up and I would see a comments and I would start crying I had to deal with that before dealing with anyone clapping for me like I couldn't even see past people making videos about me breaking down are you a guy or a girl your voice is too low like what is it it just felt awful I'd never seen someone dehumanize somebody so much online after about a year I really asked myself am I going to let this stop me I am making this content for the person I was when I started my last company and I'm not going to let this stop me and so if I'm not going to let it stop me do I want to allow it to continue bothering me because I'm not going to change my circumstance and if I'm not changing my circumstance I've got to change my perspective if I continue to try as hard as I do there will be people who understand why I'm putting out what I'm putting out people can say whatever they want about me I am truly fearful of nothing anymore
