How to get a girlfriend
Summary
- Finding a girlfriend doesn't have to rely on dating apps, but they can increase your chances through sheer numbers.
- Many women say they prefer meeting someone in a traditional setting, like a bookstore, but that might take a long time.
- When I met my partner, I was dedicated to using my lunch breaks, 45 minutes a day, swiping on dating apps because I knew it was about playing the numbers game.
- Just like in sales, you need to meet lots of people to eventually find the right one. It might take 100 first dates, but persistence usually pays off.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest focusing on making your current efforts around meeting people both consistent and intentional. Just like in sales, success often comes from persistence and volume. Using dating apps can increase your opportunities just by numbers alone. Try dedicating short periods each day, like 30 to 45 minutes during a break, to engage with these apps. This way, it won’t consume your entire day but still adds up to significant effort over time.
A good way of doing this is setting realistic goals for how many new people to meet or conversations to start each week. Make it a routine, much like you would with any important daily task. Persistence and regular engagement can pay off.
Also, balance your online efforts with looking for connection points in everyday life. Talk to people in settings you often visit or during activities you already enjoy. Being open and approachable can help you build connections naturally.
Keep in mind the importance of persistence. It might take several meetings or conversations to find the right person. Like searching for the right client or opportunity, it often requires meeting many potential matches.
By combining these efforts, you increase your chances while keeping the process manageable and aligned with your daily routine. Focus on consistency and volume, and remember that good things take time.
