I Met My Husband on My Lunch Break
Summary
- I once worked multiple jobs, dedicating every lunch break to swiping on dating apps. This was my commitment to finding a partner.
- Persistence is key. It took me almost 18 months of searching before I met Alex.
- Many people give up too soon in their search for a partner. They find it hard and tiring.
- I understand dating can be difficult and frustrating because I personally went through many bad dates.
- It's important to continuously put in the effort and not make excuses like being too busy or tired.
- You increase your chances of finding a suitable partner by consistently putting yourself out there.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing persistence in your personal growth or entrepreneurial journey. Just like finding a partner took me 18 months of constant effort, success in any field requires consistent dedication. Set small, daily goals that push you toward your big dream. Use any spare moments, like your lunch breaks, to work on your goals. This is a low-cost way to make steady progress.
A good way of doing this is to schedule dedicated time each day, even if it's just 15 minutes, to focus on your personal or business goals. Whether it's learning something new, networking, or planning your next steps, this time adds up over weeks and months.
It's easy to feel disheartened when things don't go your way immediately. Understand that it's natural to face challenges along the way. I went through many bad dates, but I kept going because I knew giving up wasn’t an option if I wanted success. Apply this mindset to your ventures. Think of setbacks as learning experiences rather than failures.
Finally, avoid making excuses like being too busy or tired. Energy is often about mindset. Remind yourself why you started and keep pushing forward. Consistently putting in the effort, no matter how small, increases your chances of reaching your goals. The more you try, the greater your possibilities for success become.
Full Transcript
when I was working like multiple jobs I was working all of the hours of the day I just used lunchtime break that I would just swipe on apps and that was my commitment was like every day during lunch the entire time I'm eating I'm going to be swiping on apps and that was my biggest commitment to myself and that worked but here's the thing I did it for like almost 18 months before I met Alex and a lot of people just give up too soon they say it's hard like listen I know dating sucks I was there when I tell you guys like put the Reps in it's not like I'm saying this as somebody who didn't do it and immediately met the person of my dreams tried to cancel my date with Alex because I was like I'm so sick of this it's probably going to be another terrible date because for like a year and a half that's all it was but guess what you're probably not going to find that person if you don't keep putting yourself out there and so stop saying you're busy stop saying it's hard stop saying it's tiring just go do it
