I Wanted Someone Who Accepted My Weirdness
Summary
- I've experienced being turned away by plenty of girls, despite being seen as successful, in shape, and decent looking.
- It's been clear to me that success and appearance don't always align with personal connection, especially when your personality is unique or considered peculiar.
- I understand that it's important to find someone who doesn't just tolerate your peculiarities but actually appreciates and embraces them.
- Being self-aware has shown me the value of compatibility over superficial attributes when it comes to relationships.
- I've realized that the right person for me would be someone who is not only accepting of my quirks but is genuinely enthusiastic about them.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest focusing on what makes you unique first. Just like I have peculiar quirks, you probably do too. Play to your strengths and don't be afraid to showcase them. It might take a little concentration to figure out what those special traits are. Think about what friends and family praise you for. Those are the things you want to put forward.
Then, look for people who get you. Don't waste time trying to impress someone who isn't into what makes you different. In my own life, it wasn't about being the most successful or looking sharp, but about finding someone who was really into my personality. You want to find a match who's not just cool with your quirks but excited about them.
It can be tough to be patient, but trust me, it's more fulfilling to wait for someone who truly connects with you. It's simple: be yourself. In business and personal growth, it's the same. Customers and friends who value what you genuinely offer will stick around.
Lastly, cultivate self-awareness. That means getting real with what you want and who you are. When you understand yourself better, you can make smarter choices about the people you spend time with, both in relationships and in business. It’s not about trying to fit a mold but finding the right fit for you. Remember, value compatibility over superficial stuff. Your time and energy are precious, so invest them in relationships that actually make you happy and bring out the best in you.
Quotes by Alex Hormozi
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Full Transcript
turned away plenty of girls they were like this guy's successful he's in shape decent looking strikingly handsome but they'd meet me and they'd be like what a weirdo there were so many girls that I was like you're pretty and I just don't care at all wanted someone who got my peculiarities who was like not only like accepting of them but just down for it
