I Wanted To Give Up
Summary
- When I only had $1,000 in my bank account, I felt like quitting nearly every day. The thought of failure stung more than rejection or exhaustion ever could.
- Feeling like a failure can be a powerful motivator. For me, going home and being seen as one drove me to keep pushing.
- Whatever motivates you, even if it’s fear or pain, don't judge it. Use it to fuel your journey.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a mindset shift where you let even negative feelings like fear or the worry of failure motivate you. Instead of judging yourself harshly for feeling this way, recognize these feelings as powerful drivers that can propel you forward.
A good way of doing this is to acknowledge your feelings without letting them control you. Write down what you’re afraid of and why. Then, list how overcoming these fears can benefit you. This simple activity costs you nothing but can be hugely beneficial for mental clarity.
Another practical strategy is to use visualization. Spend a few minutes each day visualizing what success looks like for you. Imagine how it feels, what your day looks like, and the benefits you’ll enjoy. This can turn those feelings of fear into feelings of anticipation and excitement.
When you feel the urge to quit, remember why you started. Create a small reminder—a note on your desk, background on your phone—about why you’re passionate about your goal. This acts as an immediate motivator whenever doubt creeps in.
Finally, set micro-goals. Small, achievable steps can reduce the sense of overwhelm and boost your confidence as you see progress. Celebrate these small victories because they inch you closer to your bigger goal, reducing the significance of failures along the way.
By engaging in these simple yet powerful practices, you can leverage feelings like fear, turning them into a source of strength and perseverance.
