If You Choose to Leave…
Summary
- If I'm part of a group that dislikes me and I'm forced out, I am an outcast.
- However, if I choose to leave a group on my own to join another, the new group is likely to accept me because I made the decision to change.
- Choosing to change and grow on my own terms means I am not an outcast; I am simply seeking a better fit for my aspirations.
- We must remember that those who see change as bad may not grasp the concept of growth because they've never gone through it themselves.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest embracing change as something positive and self-directed. Here's what you can do:
- Take a good look at your current group or network. Are they supporting your goals? If not, don't be afraid to seek out new groups that align with your aspirations.
- Realize that leaving a group on your terms isn’t about being an outcast. It’s about finding your tribe – people who cheer you on. This step could simply be joining online communities or networking groups that share your interests.
- Remember, change is often necessary for growth. Look at the changes you want to make and ask yourself if they bring you closer to your goals.
- Don't let the fear of how others perceive your growth stop you. Those who see change as negative might not have experienced personal growth themselves, so focus on your journey, not their opinions.
- Start small. You don’t have to make big leaps all at once. Small changes like reading a book related to your field or reaching out to a potential mentor can start paving the way for bigger growth.
- Reflect often. Ask yourself if the changes you’re making feel right and keep you moving forward. Your intuition can be a powerful guide in your growth journey.
By following these steps, you'll control your growth and find communities that support the person you aim to become.
Quotes by Alex Hormozi
"The people that you're leaving don't understand the difference between change and growth"
– Alex Hormozi
"If it's your choice, you were not Outcast, you chose to leave"
– Alex Hormozi
"If you want to join another tribe, then that other tribe will probably welcome you back with open arms"
– Alex Hormozi
"Because you chose to leave, because you wanted to change"
– Alex Hormozi
"How could they, they never have"
– Alex Hormozi
Full Transcript
so if you're in a tribe of people and they all hate you and they say we'd rather you not be here you're an outcast if the same thing happens which is that you get Outcast but you do it to yourself because you want to join another tribe then that other tribe will probably welcome you back with open arms because you chose to leave because you wanted to change but if you just change back to what they wanted then they would accept you and so it's understanding who's the person who's deciding to change if it's your choice you were not Outcast you chose to leave because the people that you're leaving don't understand the difference between change and growth and how could they they never have
