If Your Relationship Is Struggling
Summary
- If I want to ensure my marriage fails, I wouldn't trust my wife and surround myself with single women.
- To avoid a terrible relationship, it's clear that hanging out with single women, especially frequently, is something I'd avoid.
- I'd also stay away from drinking with my buddies in places where my wife isn't present if I want a strong marriage.
- Trust is a cornerstone for a healthy relationship; extending it to my wife means not coming off as paranoid.
- Flipping negative behaviors that would harm my marriage is a powerful technique to improve it.
- By reflecting on the opposite of negative actions, I can find ways to strengthen my relationship.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest looking at what you're doing now that's not helping your business or personal growth. Think about it: If you want a strong relationship with your customers or team, trust them. Just like in a marriage, trust is key. So, stop being suspicious of your team's intentions and start building that trust.
A good way of doing this is by flipping the bad stuff. If you don't want to fail, look at the things that would make you fail and then do the opposite. Like, if hanging out with people who don't care about their work would make your business tank, then you do the opposite. Hang out with people who are super into what they do. That'll rub off on you and help you grow.
You can easily improve your business or personal life by avoiding negative actions. For example, if you think drinking with buddies might hurt your business relationships, don't do that. Be around people and in places that help you stay on track.
If you want to get better at something, think about what makes people bad at it. Then, don't do those things. Instead, do things that will make you good at it. It's a simple flip, but it's really powerful. Remember, don't do stuff that makes you paranoid or untrustworthy. Always do things that build trust and make you better.
Reflect on the opposite of your negative actions. This way you'll find what you need to do to strengthen your business or personal growth.
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Full Transcript
if your relationship is struggling you're like okay how would I guarantee that I would have a terrible relationship with my wife I would not trust her I would hang out with as many other women that are single ass humanly possible I mean sounds ridiculous but you go down the list it's like okay well if then I wanted to have a great marriage what would I do I'd probably not hang out with a lot of single women if at all I would probably not drink a lot with the boys in environments where she's not with me I would probably extend trust to her so that I don't look paranoid right and so each of those things you just take the negative thing that would guarantee that you'd have a bad relationship and flip it and for whatever reason unbelievably powerful and I recommend it