I’m No Different Than You
Summary
- People often believe they lack something that I possess or vice versa, but that's not the case; I'm also scared, but I've had more practice.
- My experience in acting despite fear comes from repeatedly facing scary situations and seeing positive outcomes, which motivates me to keep going.
- Emotions act as signals, and at times it's beneficial to act in contrast to what those feelings are suggesting.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest starting by acknowledging that fear is normal when facing new challenges, just like I do. Remember, the key is to practice. Each time you feel scared but take action anyway, it gets a bit easier. Begin with something small that scares you and take the leap. When it works out, you'll feel motivated to tackle the next challenge.
To handle your emotions, think of them as signals. For instance, if you're feeling hesitant to make a business call or start a project because you're nervous, take a breath and do it anyway. Doing the opposite of what fear tells you can often be the right choice.
Here's a simple plan:
- Identify a small scary task you've been avoiding.
- Commit to doing it as soon as possible. Don't overthink it.
- Reflect on the outcome. It's likely not as bad as you feared!
- Use that positive experience as a stepping stone for the next challenge.
The more you do this, the more confidence you'll build. These small wins add up and over time, they'll reduce the power fear has over you. And remember, the cost is low—just your willingness to step out of your comfort zone—but the value of overcoming your fears is high. Keep going and you'll see even more positive outcomes.
Quotes by Leila Hormozi
"I've just practiced more than somebody else and I have more experience acting despite feeling terrified"
– Leila Hormozi
"I have just seen it pay off and then I have more reason to do the next thing that's scary"
– Leila Hormozi
"Our feelings are there as signals"
– Leila Hormozi
"Sometimes you should do the opposite of what they're telling you to do"
– Leila Hormozi
Full Transcript
a lot of people think you must have something I don't have or not have something I have or whatever I'm like no pretty sure I'm terrified too I've just practiced more than somebody else and I have more experience acting despite feeling terrified I have just seen it pay off and then I have more reason to do the next thing that's scary again our feelings are there as signals and I think that they're useful in that sometimes you should do the opposite of what they're telling you to do