It Never Works, Until It Does
Summary
- If your parents or friends are judgmental about who you date, they may be right throughout your dating journey except for the person you choose to marry.
- They may criticize every relationship, saying it won’t last and often they are correct, but this doesn’t apply to the one who ultimately becomes your life partner.
- The same principle applies to business: every venture may seem like it won’t succeed until you find the one that does.
- Persisting through multiple relationships or business attempts increases your experience and skill, bringing you closer to finding the one that works.
- Remember, it's common for things not to last until you find the right fit, whether in love or business.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing the idea of persistence in your business or personal growth journey. Here's how you can do it:
Embrace Persistence:
Expect Setbacks: Understand that not every relationship or business venture will work out. Most won't. This mindset helps you not get discouraged.
Learn From Each Experience: Treat each failed relationship or business as a learning opportunity. What did you do right? What can you improve? Keep a journal if needed.
Keep Going: The more you try, the better you get. Each attempt builds your experience and skills. This increases your chances of finding the right fit or successful venture.
Low-Cost, High-Value Actions:
Feedback Loop: Regularly ask for feedback from trusted friends, mentors, or advisors. Their outside perspective can be invaluable.
Refine Your Approach: After each attempt, take some time to reflect and refine your approach. Small tweaks can often lead to significant improvements.
Networking: Build a network of like-minded individuals. Join local business groups or online communities. The relationships you build here can provide support, advice, and new opportunities.
Personal Growth:
Self-Improvement: Continuously work on improving yourself through books, courses, or workshops. The better you become, the better your chances of success in relationships and business.
Be Patient: Understand that finding the right partner or successful business takes time. Patience is key.
By focusing on persistence, learning from each experience, and continuously improving yourself, you increase your chances of finding lasting success in both personal and business endeavors.
Full Transcript
if you have judgmental parents or judgmental friends or judgmental whatevers and you date people and you bring them home if they say I don't think this is the girl for you they're right every single time your entire life except for the one person that you decide to marry and then they are absolutely wrong at the time that it mattered most and the thing is is they get to say on your sixth girlfriend and seventh girlfriend and eighth girlfriend we'll see how long this one lasts and two years in they're like see you finally broke up with her I told you at the beginning it wasn't going to last well it never [ __ ] lasts except for the one that's going to stick duh and the business never works until it's the one that does and whether it's 10 or 10,000 eventually one does because when you do more you get better at doing
