It Sucks To Not Be Liked
Summary
- It sucks more to not be yourself than to endure the discomfort of being disliked.
- Being hated by bad people is actually a good indicator. You wouldn't want to be loved by bad people as it reflects poorly on you.
- A mentor once told me, "Don't take criticism from someone you wouldn't take advice from." This is a powerful way to evaluate feedback.
- Chasing your goals can seem unconventional, but what’s crazier is expecting others to understand them.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing a mindset shift to be more authentic. Start by embracing who you really are, even if it feels scary. It might be uncomfortable at first, but the discomfort of not being true to yourself is worse. Trust that being yourself will eventually lead you to people who appreciate the real you.
A good way of dealing with negative people is to remember that being disliked by bad people is a good sign. If they're upset, it could mean you're on the right track. Ask yourself if you would really value their opinion or advice. If not, don't let their criticism get you down. Keep your focus on taking feedback only from those you respect and admire.
If you're finding it hard to pursue your big dreams because others don't understand, don't let that stop you. It's okay if others don’t see your vision—it's your journey, not theirs. Set your goals independently of others' expectations and don't rely on their understanding.
Start small by practicing these mental shifts in every situation, whether it's in business, personal growth, or relationships. Over time, you'll become more resilient and focused on what truly matters. Remember, authenticity attracts the right people and opportunities.
