Life Lesson From A 93-Year-Old Billionaire

Summary

• Picking the right spouse is the most crucial decision you'll ever make. Get it right, and life can be fantastic; get it wrong, and it can be a disaster. I've had the right partner for 68 years, and we've been a great team together.

• Research shows that having a good relationship with your spouse is four times more impactful on happiness than being fulfilled at work. So, choose your partner like you're making a long-term investment, not like you're buying a car.

• Think of your spouse as the person you'll get the most support from for the rest of your life. Make that decision wisely.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest focusing on choosing the right partner—think of it as your most crucial life decision. It's like picking a teammate for life. A solid partnership can greatly impact your happiness, more so than your career.

A good way of doing this is to view your relationship choice the same way you would approach a long-term investment. Consider qualities like shared values, common goals, and mutual respect. Ask yourself if this person will support and grow alongside you through life's ups and downs.

You might also want to reflect on the support network you desire. Remember, your partner is the person from whom you'll receive the most reinforcement throughout your life. Take time in assessing how your partner makes you feel, how both of you handle disagreements, and how you envision your future together.

Finally, I recommend discussing important aspects of life early on in the relationship—finances, family plans, career goals—to ensure alignment. Simple conversations can prevent future disasters and build a happier, more unified front. By doing this, you're not just choosing a spouse; you're choosing a life partner, which is way more significant than any job or material benefit. Make that choice wisely, and it will be your greatest asset.