My Dad Was So Happy…
Summary
- My favorite holiday was when we went to Mexico with my dad and stepmom.
- My dad and Alex ended up doing something they don't usually do: taking shots. This made my dad really happy.
- Seeing my dad have so much fun was memorable because I've rarely seen him that happy.
- The best memories often come from watching loved ones feel joyful and excited.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest focusing on creating memorable experiences by prioritizing time with loved ones. It doesn’t have to be elaborate; simple activities can be very impactful. Plan a day or evening where you do something different together, like a new game or cooking a meal that everyone gets to help with. This builds connection and often leads to unexpected joy and laughter.
A good way of doing this is to be present and observe what makes your loved ones happy. Just like the joy I saw in my dad during that Mexico trip, noticing and encouraging what lights them up can create lasting memories. Pay attention and be part of those moments, whether it's a fun activity or just a heartfelt conversation.
I’d also recommend, for personal growth, to reflect on these experiences. Take time to appreciate the happiness and excitement you see in others. This practice can shift your focus from always trying to make yourself happy to finding joy in other people's happiness. Keeping a journal of these moments helps reinforce this mindset shift and reminds you of the shared joy.
Lastly, think about ways you can surprise someone with something special, not necessarily with things, but with your time or attention. Sometimes the best surprises are the ones where you show up ready to share in someone else's joy.
