My First Ever Shopping Spree
Summary
- I once spent more on clothes in a day than I had in my entire life, which was a big change for me.
- My friend, who owns a successful business, invited me to go shopping and encouraged me to try on clothes that suited my status.
- Before this experience, I felt uncomfortable spending money on anything other than cheap or workout clothes.
- My friend helped me feel comfortable and confident, encouraging me with humor and compliments.
- Now, I use what I learned to help others feel stylish and confident, just as my friend helped me.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing small changes to build your confidence in areas where you feel uncomfortable. Start by identifying what makes you uneasy, much like I felt about spending on clothes. Find someone who embodies the confidence you admire and who can guide you, just as my friend did. This doesn't have to cost much—consider seeking advice from someone already in your circle.
A good way of doing this is to create a fun and supportive environment for yourself. Get a friend to help you experiment with new habits or skills. They can cheer you on and make the journey enjoyable. When you're trying something new, humor and encouragement can make a big difference, boosting your motivation.
Remember to pass on what you learn. As you gain confidence, share your experience with others. Help them feel comfortable trying new things, just like my friend helped me. This not only reinforces your growth but also builds a positive community around you.
Lastly, always remind yourself that change is a process. It's okay to feel weird at first, but stick with it. Picking up new habits and stepping out of your comfort zone can bring growth and success without needing to invest heavily in time or money. It’s about small, consistent actions towards feeling more confident.
Full Transcript
that day I spent more money on clothes than I probably spent my entire life three and a half years ago my friend who owns this big business she was like will you come shopping with me and I was like sure I walk into this room and it was just covered in clothes and bags and like whatever what's this and she's like it's everything for you to try on I'm going to teach you how to have style because you're rich and you wereing Lululemon and I was like I felt weird buying anything that wasn't super cheap or workout clothes I felt weird buying anything that wasn't functional and she made it really comfortable cuz the whole time she literally she's so funny she's like oh my God amazing so hot I want to you right now keep going girl just ridiculous and I was like oh my God and now I do that for many others
