My Husband and I Didnt Have Sparks
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My Husband and I Didn’t Have Sparks

ByAI Leila

Summary

  • I believe relationships should be based on logic rather than just searching for Disney-like sparks or romance. It's important to trust the process and ensure the person you are with has a positive influence over you.

  • When choosing a partner, consider if this person is truly someone you want to have significant influence in your life. They will shape who you are and who you become.

  • Commitment to a relationship means not looking for an exit. For me, it was important to agree on wanting one life partner and not just a temporary marriage.

  • Understand that feelings can change over time, but shared values and principles remain constant. These are the foundation you can rely on during tough times.

  • In moments when feelings are not as strong, focus on the shared values and principles with your partner to maintain a strong connection.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing relationships based on shared values and principles rather than just emotional sparks. Start by identifying what values are important to you and ensure your partner shares them. This sets a strong foundation for your relationship, especially through tough times.

A good way of evaluating a potential partner is considering their influence on your life. Ask yourself if they inspire you to be better or if they bring you down. Surrounding yourself with people who positively impact you is crucial for personal growth.

Commitment is essential. Decide together with your partner on what commitment means to both of you. Having a clear agreement on desiring a lifelong partnership can remove the notion of looking for an exit when challenges arise.

Also, remember that feelings change, but values stay constant. When emotions are low or your relationship feels challenging, lean into those shared principles you both cherish. It’s an anchor during tougher times.

For personal growth, apply these principles in all relationships. Build friendships and networks that align with your core values. This ensures that people around you uplift and encourage you to reach your highest potential.

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