Put Yourself Out There No Matter What
Summary
- When someone in a relationship cheats on you, it doesn't mean you should avoid people with similar traits completely.
- Avoiding similar situations might lead to missing out on potential great relationships.
- Distrusting new partners because of past experiences can create the same negative outcome you were trying to avoid.
- Continuously checking a partner's phone or social media because of distrust can ruin the relationship and push them away.
- In business, you should keep putting yourself out there despite getting hurt or screwed over sometimes.
- Avoiding losses and bad situations also means you miss out on winning and building amazing partnerships and relationships.
- It’s important not to become the person you’re trying to avoid. For instance, no one wants a boss who cannot trust their employees.
- Building trust and being willing to take risks are key to finding success and fulfillment both in relationships and in business.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest implementing these strategies to grow your business and improve your personal life effectively and without much cost:
Trust and Relationships
Avoid Prejudices: Try not to let bad past experiences make you wary of new relationships or partnerships. Instead of seeing each new person as a potential problem, see them without bias. This can help you build better personal and business relationships.
Build Trust: Make a conscious effort to trust your partners and employees. Looking over their shoulders or doubting their motives can harm the relationship. Instead, focus on clear communication and set reasonable expectations upfront.
Business Strategies
Take Calculated Risks: Don't be afraid to take risks in business. Avoiding all risks means you might miss out on significant opportunities. Start with smaller, low-cost risks to build your confidence and ability to handle bigger ones over time.
Exposure is Key: Keep putting yourself out there despite past setbacks. Network, reach out to new clients, and continue seeking partnerships. The more you do this, the more likely you are to find successful relationships and opportunities.
Personal Growth
Self-Reflection: Regularly think about your actions and behavior. Are you becoming the distrustful person you're trying to avoid? Aim to be genuine and open in your interactions.
Positive Mindset: Shift your focus from avoiding loss to achieving success. Positive thinking can help you stay motivated and resilient, even when things don't always go as planned.
These steps can help improve both your personal and professional life. Remember, it’s about finding the balance between staying cautious and being open to new possibilities.
Full Transcript
if you get into a relationship and you have a girlfriend and maybe she cheats on you does that mean you should never be with a girl who has blonde hair or is nice or lives in the state of Iowa ever again when you are approached by the same situation does that mean you should avoid it and that you should treat it as if something bad's going to happen cuz what happens when you treat that girl like you don't trust her because the last one cheated on you you start looking through her phone you start looking at her Instagram DMS you start seeing who she follows and like she's like you don't trust me and then you perpetuate the situation that you wanted to avoid and so the same happens in business and what I've learned is like I will continue to put myself out there if you avoid losing and you avoid getting screwed you also avoid winning and you avoid making amazing Partnerships and having amazing relationships just like if you avoid being with somebody who cheats on you you probably also avoid finding the love of your life because you spend your time checking on people nobody wants to be with somebody like that just like nobody wants to work for a boss who doesn't trust them you become the person that you're trying to avoid
