Put Yourself Out There No Matter What

Summary

• If a girlfriend cheats on you, don't judge all future partners based on that one experience. Each person is different.
• Treating new people with distrust because of past bad experiences leads to negative outcomes. For example, checking a new girlfriend's phone betrays your lack of trust and harms the relationship.
• In business, you have to take risks to find success. Avoiding bad experiences can also mean missing out on great opportunities.
• If you avoid getting involved with people who might cheat or partners who might betray you, you also risk losing out on amazing relationships and partnerships.
• Nobody wants to be in a relationship or work for someone who doesn’t trust them. Trust is crucial in both personal and business relationships.
• Focusing too much on preventing bad experiences makes you become the person that others want to avoid.

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How To Take Action

Implementation Strategies for Personal and Business Growth

Build Trust from a Fresh Perspective

I would suggest implementing a fresh approach when meeting new people. Whether in relationships or business, avoid making assumptions based on past negative experiences. For example, if you've been cheated on before, don't start a new relationship by invading someone's privacy. Trust should be given freely until there's a reason not to. This way, you foster positive relationships and partnerships.

Embrace Calculated Risks

In business, taking risks is necessary to find success. If you’re afraid of getting "screwed over," you’ll miss out on great opportunities. Start small: for instance, if you're hesitant about partnering with new people, begin with a small project first. This makes it easier to manage risk while still opening the door for potential growth.

Balance Caution with Openness

A good way of doing this is by setting clear and open communication lines. In both personal and business scenarios, be transparent about your past experiences and express your expectations. This honesty builds a foundation of mutual trust. For instance, discussing past business failures can help align goals and avoid previous pitfalls without closing yourself off from new possibilities.

Focus on Positive Actions

Instead of obsessing over preventing bad experiences, channel your energy into taking positive actions. For example, rather than checking on your partner's social media, spend quality time building the relationship. In business, invest time in developing strong partnerships based on mutual respect and shared values.

Create a Trustworthy Environment

Ensure that people feel valued and trusted around you. If you run a small business, give your team responsibilities and avoid micromanaging. This shows that you trust their capabilities and builds a positive work culture. In personal relationships, respect others' privacy, and build trust naturally over time.

By following these steps, you'll create healthier, more trusting relationships, which are essential for both personal and business success.

Full Transcript

if you get into a relationship and you have a girlfriend and maybe she cheats on you does that mean you should never be with a girl who has blonde hair or is nice or lives in the state of Iowa ever again when you are approached by the same situation does that mean you should avoid it and that you should treat it as if something bad's going to happen cuz what happens when you treat that girl like you don't trust her because the last one cheated on you you start looking through her phone you start looking at her Instagram DMS you start seeing who she follows and like she's like you don't trust me and then you perpetuate the situation that you wanted to avoid and so the same happens in business and what I've learned is like I will continue to put myself out there if you avoid losing and you avoid getting screwed you also avoid winning and you avoid making amazing Partnerships and having amazing relationships just like if you avoid being with somebody who cheats on you you probably also avoid finding the love of your life because you spend your time checking on people nobody wants to be with somebody like that just like nobody wants to work for a boss who doesn't trust them you become the person that you're trying to avoid