Should You Care What People Think?

Summary

• When you're clear on your values, the judgment of others becomes less significant.
• It's crucial to ask yourself if your actions align with your long-term goals and personal values.
• Keep doing things that are in line with your values, despite any potential negative feedback.
• Even when creating content that might be controversial, if it represents your values, you should share it.
• Having a strong sense of self is based on acting according to the values you set for yourself.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest starting by taking some time to think about what is truly important to you. Write down your personal values and the long-term goals you want to reach. Keep this list somewhere you can see it every day.

Once you know your values and goals, look at the things you're doing now. Ask yourself, "Are these actions helping me become who I want to be?" Make sure everything you do is helping you move closer to your goals.

If you're faced with negative feedback from others, go back to your list. Remember, if what you are doing is in line with your values, it is okay to keep going. Other people's opinions matter less when you are sure about your direction.

For example, if you're thinking about making a video or post that you believe in but might not be popular, check it against your values list. If it fits with who you are and the message you want to share, put it out there.

Acting consistently with your values builds a strong sense of self. So, every day, choose actions that match your values. This will help you stay focused on what matters and keep you moving toward the person you want to become. Remember, being true to yourself is what counts the most.

Quotes by Leila Hormozi

"If you're clear enough on your values then other people's judgment of what you're doing is less important"

– Leila Hormozi

"Am I living in accordance with my values? Am I doing things that are leading to my long-term goals?"

– Leila Hormozi

"If the answer is yes, then I'll keep doing them despite what people say"

– Leila Hormozi

"Even if I make a video and I'm like, man, some people are going to hate this, it's like, okay well does this align with the values that I want to display for the person I want to be"

– Leila Hormozi

"If your opinion of yourself is based on acting in accordance with a set of values that you've outlined for yourself, then I think it makes a really strong argument for why you keep doing something you're doing"

– Leila Hormozi

Full Transcript

there's always going to be people judging you if you're clear enough on your values then other people's Judgment of what you're doing is less important am I living in accordance with my values am I doing things that are leading to my long-term goals if the answer is yes then I'll keep doing them despite what people say even if I make a video and I'm like man some people are going to hate this it's like okay well does this align with the values that I want to display for the person I want to be it's like well if the answer is yes then it's like great if your opinion of yourself is based on acting in accordance with a set of values that you've outlined for yourself then I think it makes a really strong argument for why you keep doing something you're doing