Some People Don’t Want the Best for You

Summary

• Share your goals with those who genuinely support you; it will be beneficial.
• Be honest with yourself about people's intentions towards your goals, and avoid sharing with those who may not wish you well.
• Recognize that sometimes the doubters can be close to you, like family or friends, and be selective about who you confide in.
• It's important to identify and distance yourself from negativity, even when it's from people in your immediate circle.
• Focus on surrounding yourself with positive influences, especially when pursuing your ambitions.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest implementing a strategy where you carefully choose who you share your important goals with. Start by making a list of friends, family members, or colleagues who have always supported you. These are the people to open up to about your ambitions because their encouragement can give you a boost.

When thinking about your goals, be honest with yourself about who truly wants the best for you. If you sense someone might not be fully supportive, it's okay to keep your dreams to yourself around them. You don't need unnecessary doubt when you’re working hard to achieve something special.

It's tough, but acknowledge that sometimes the doubters are those closest to you. If a friend or a family member often makes you feel like you can't reach your dreams, consider not sharing your plans with them. You don't have to cut them out of your life completely, but you can decide what topics to talk about with them.

Distance yourself from negativity. If there are people who always seem to bring you down, try to spend less time around them. It's important to protect your energy and focus.

Finally, fill your circle with positive influences. Look for new friends or mentors who believe in your potential. Join groups or communities where people are working towards similar goals. These positive relationships can help propel you towards success much faster and can make the journey more enjoyable.

By carefully choosing positive relationships and creating an uplifting environment, you're setting yourself up for a better chance at achieving your goals.

Quotes by Leila Hormozi

"I think it's beneficial to tell people who have your best interest in mind what your goals are"

– Leila Hormozi

"I do think that there is an element and I'm just being really honest like there are people who I feel like when they know what my goals are they don't want the best for me"

– Leila Hormozi

"They try to make me question if those goals are achievable so I don't tell Jack to those people"

– Leila Hormozi

"I try not to be around those people but sometimes those people are family"

– Leila Hormozi

"Friends that people you thought were your friends"

– Leila Hormozi

Full Transcript

I think it's beneficial to tell people who have your best interest in mind what your goals are because I do think that there is an element and I'm just being really honest like there are people who I feel like when they know what my goals are they don't want the best for me and they try to make me question if those goals are achievable so I don't tell Jack to those people and I try not to be around those people but sometimes those people are family friends that people you thought were your friends it's pretty loud what are we doing welding today Jesus