The Best Decisions I Made for My Career…
Summary
- The best decision I made for my quality of life was choosing who to marry.
- Many people don't think enough about who they marry, but it's a major life decision.
- I picked Alex because he made every part of my life better—like health, wealth, happiness, and friendships.
- It's important to have a partner who makes everything important to you better, not worse.
- You spend most of your time with your life partner, so choose someone you admire and want to be like.
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How To Take Action
I would suggest taking a close look at the people you surround yourself with, especially if you're considering a life partner. Think about how they impact key areas of your life like health, wealth, happiness, and friendships. A simple way to start is by listing what matters most to you in these areas. Once you have that list, reflect on whether your partner or potential partner uplifts these aspects of your life or not.
A good way of doing this without feeling overwhelmed is to have open and honest discussions with your partner about your mutual goals and values. If you're not in a relationship, focus on building qualities in yourself that you'd like to see in a future partner. This can include being supportive, kind, and ambitious. These qualities attract similar traits in others, setting a solid foundation for a relationship.
For personal growth, spend time observing how your partner reacts in various situations. Choose a partner who you admire and would like to emulate in some way. This doesn't cost any money and requires only your attention and intention.
Lastly, practice gratitude for the positive influence your partner has on your life. This can be as simple as verbally acknowledging the things they improve for you—it's a high-value action that costs nothing but can increase your happiness and strengthen your relationship.
Full Transcript
what's the best decision you made for your quality of life so easy who I married I think a lot of people don't put a lot of thought into who they marry people give us because I I was like oh it was a logical decision like it was definitely the best decision I've ever made because I think our relationship genuinely might makes every aspect of my life better I look at it like does this person that's in your life make everything better or worse do they make the things that are important to you like health wealth happiness friendships do they make those all better or worse and when I met Alex he made everything better and I made everything better for him and so because of that I think it worked out really really well and I think that a lot of people don't put enough thought into who they bring on as a life partner but you spend a disproportionate amount of your time with that person and so you freaking make sure that somebody you want to be like
