True Relationship Test (ft. @leilahormozi)

Summary

• I use a simple test to evaluate the influence of people entering my life: consider what changes they bring to my behavior and thinking.
• I reflect on how I normally eat, work, and spend my time alone and see if these change when someone new affects my routine.
• I ask myself if my work, workouts, or social habits have shifted due to a new person, which can alter life outcomes.
• It's crucial to evaluate if these behavior changes lead to desired outcomes.
• Most people would realize, upon honest reflection, that they don't really want these changes.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest using a simple test to evaluate the impact people have on your life. Think about your routine when you're alone—how you work, eat, and spend your time. It's important to notice if a new person entering your life makes changes to these habits.

A good way of doing this is to write down your daily routine when you're alone and compare it with your routine after meeting new people. This can help identify if you’re working or working out less, for example.

Reflect on these changes to decide if they lead to positive outcomes for you. Consider if the changes align with your goals.

Check if the adjustments make you happier or more productive. If you find the changes are not beneficial, recognize that it's okay to set boundaries and keep those habits that help you grow.

It's also important to be honest with yourself. Look in the mirror and ask if the shifted habits are truly what you want. This simple evaluation will help you control your life’s path and avoid unnecessary disruptions.

Remember, small habits can lead to big changes in life outcomes. So, staying aware of influences can keep you on track toward your goals.

Full Transcript

I think a really good limus testest is what is this person entering my life change about my behavior thinking okay when I am on my own I work out like this I eat like this I work like this I go to sleep at this time these are the social things that I find meaningful or interesting now when this person enters my life how many of those things that when I had nothing interfering with me change in their expression do I work less do I work out less do I eat differently do I spend my time differently well if that occurs then all of those changes will certainly change the outputs of your life and are those changes to the outputs what you want and I think most people if they really looked at themselves in the mirror be like no