What Gifts Do I Give Alex?
Summary
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I have learned that not everyone enjoys receiving material gifts, so I focus on giving experiences instead. It's important to tailor gifts to what the other person truly values and enjoys.
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For people like Alex, who prefers experiences over physical items, organizing events with friends or activities they love can be more meaningful. This year, I had his friend visit so they could spend quality time together.
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When giving gifts, consider the recipient’s preferences rather than your own. While I wanted to get Alex custom suits, I realized it might be more about my desire to see him in a suit rather than his interest in wearing them.
- Understanding and honoring the other person's likes and interests can make gifts more thoughtful and appreciated.
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How To Take Action
A good way of implementing thoughtful gift-giving is to focus on experiences rather than material gifts. This can be low-cost and high-value. Start by really understanding what the person values. For some, like Alex, organizing a simple event or arranging time with friends might be more appreciated than giving physical items.
I would suggest taking time to find out what activities or experiences the person enjoys. You don't need to spend a lot of money. It could be something as simple as planning a day out, a picnic, or organizing a small get-together. The key is to make it personalized and meaningful.
When considering gifts, it's important to focus on what the other person loves and not what you want for them. For example, while you might think a custom suit is a great gift, the person might not find it exciting. Instead, consider what they would wear or use in their daily life.
Lastly, always be sure to listen and take note of any hints or clues they might give about their interests. This makes your gifts more thoughtful and shows that you genuinely care about their preferences. By valuing what the person enjoys, you create more lasting and memorable experiences.
