When I Emotionally Matured

Summary

• I realized that love and lust alone don't build strong relationships. It's important to emotionally mature to understand what you truly want in a partner.

• What I truly wanted was a life partner, not just a husband. I wanted someone who could make me better and who I could also help improve.

• A great partnership is not a one-way street but a two-way street. Both partners need to contribute positively to each other's growth.

• You can't just wish for someone to make you better. You must also be the kind of person who can make them better, or else you won't attract that kind of partner.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest starting by looking inward to understand what you truly want in a relationship or partnership. Take some time to assess what qualities matter most to you in a partner and what you can offer in return. This helps clarify your desires.

A good way to emotionally mature is by reflecting on your past relationships or partnerships. Identify patterns and areas for growth, and think about how you can be more supportive and encouraging to others. Emotional maturity can guide you to healthier and more fulfilling connections.

Focus on building a two-way street with the people around you. In any relationship, whether personal or professional, both sides should contribute positively to each other's growth. Think about how you can help improve others while allowing them to help you grow. This mutual support can create stronger bonds.

Remember, you can't just hope for others to elevate you. Work on becoming someone who can uplift others too. Identify your strengths and use them to help others succeed while being open to receiving help. This kind of reciprocity can attract the right kind of people into your life.

These steps don't require big resources or time, but they can help create better and more meaningful relationships.

Full Transcript

as soon as I emotionally matured and realized that like love and lust are not what build a great relationship then I realized what I really wanted I want a partner a life partner I don't want like just a husband I want a partner I want somebody who makes me better and who I can make better you know it wasn't a one-way Street it's a two-way street and you can't wish for somebody to make you better cuz if you're not the kind of person who can make them better you're not going to get that person