Who Should You Listen To?

Summary

• Always think about who you're listening to for advice. Not all advice is equal.
• Be careful with advice from strangers online. They might not know anything about your dreams or goals.
• Don’t take advice from people you know who haven’t done what you want to do and don’t know anyone else who has.
• If someone has closely watched others do what you want, their advice might be more helpful but still not the best.
• The best advice comes from people who have actually done what you want to do. They’ve been in your shoes before.
• Even better advice comes from those who have not only done it themselves but have also helped other people achieve the same goal.
• The top advice-givers are those who have both personal experience and have helped others like you. They know the path and how to guide someone through it.
• Remember, every situation is different. At the end of the day, you need to make your own decisions.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest starting by being mindful of who you listen to for advice. Not all advice is created equal. Focus on advice coming from people who have actually done what you're aiming to do. This could save you a lot of time and mistakes. Look for those who not only succeeded themselves but have also guided others like you. Those are your gold-tier advisors. They know the path and how to guide someone through it.

A good way of doing this is by researching credible sources or communities online. Join forums or groups that focus on your field. Pay attention to advice from seasoned members who've demonstrated clear success. This is a low-cost, low-time commitment step with high value.

Be cautious with advice from strangers or people who haven't achieved what you desire. They might not fully understand your goals or challenges. Instead, seek mentors or use networking to connect with people who’ve closely observed those who succeeded.

Evaluate advice critically. Remember, while input from experienced individuals is valuable, every situation is unique. It's crucial to tailor advice to your specific circumstances. Use it to inform your decisions, but trust your instincts and experience to guide final choices. This balanced approach helps create a path that fits your unique journey.

Full Transcript

here's a tier list of people you should take advice from last strangers on the internet people you know who haven't done what you want to do or know anyone who's done what you want to do people who observed people who have done what you want to do in close proximity people who have actually done what you want to do people who have helped many people go from where you are to where you want to go and finally people who have both been there themselves and helped other people like you get to where you want to go you might not find the people at the top of the list but the real real is no two situations are identical and so you still at the end of the day have to make decisions for yourself