You Don’t Deserve Anything

Summary

• I believe nobody inherently deserves anything; this entitlement mindset can be harmful.
• You can earn achievements through actions, but the sense of “deserving” can lead to ingratitude.
• Cultivate gratitude by recognizing that what you receive is not something you’re owed.
• When you expect rewards rather than appreciate them, it diminishes their value.
• Treating every gain as a gift can enhance your appreciation and satisfaction.

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How To Take Action

I would suggest starting by getting rid of the idea that we deserve stuff just because we want it. Instead, think of all the good things that come your way as gifts. This can help you feel more thankful.

A good way of doing this is by keeping a gratitude journal. Every day, write down at least one thing that you’re thankful for. It doesn’t have to be big. It could be as simple as a kind word from a friend or a sunny day. This helps you see all the good stuff in your life and makes you appreciate them more.

Another thing you can do is giving back to others without expecting anything in return. Maybe help a neighbor, or volunteer a little bit of your time. When you do good for others, it feels good for you, too. Plus, it shows you that making others happy can be a gift to yourself.

It’s important to understand that when you work hard and get something nice, it’s because of your actions. Instead of thinking “I deserve this,” try thinking “I earned this.” It’s a small change in words, but it can make a big difference in how you feel.

Lastly, say thank you more often. Whether it’s to a friend who helps you or a stranger who holds the door, saying thank you makes both of you feel good. It’s a simple thing, but it can make your day and theirs a little brighter.

Remember, when you stop expecting stuff and start being thankful for what you get, life gets a whole lot better.

Quotes by Alex Hormozi

“I am hardcore against anyone thinking they deserve anything”

– Alex Hormozi

“You don’t deserve anything you can get things for what you do but you don’t deserve them”

– Alex Hormozi

“If you do get things when you believe you deserve them, then you will not be grateful for them”

– Alex Hormozi

“You will expect them and then it takes something that otherwise would have been amazing and nullifies it”

– Alex Hormozi

“It’s like spitting on a gift”

– Alex Hormozi

Full Transcript

I want to publicly State wholeheartedly that I am hardcore against anyone thinking they deserve anything so people are like get what you deserve ask what what you want blah you don’t deserve anything you can get things for what you do but you don’t deserve them because if you do get things when you believe you deserve them then you will not be grateful for them you will expect them and then it takes something that otherwise would have been amazing and nullifies it it’s like spitting on a gift